2015 is just about over. And I am glad. It's been a hard year, although I haven't (and won't) posted about most of the issues we have had to deal with. Very possibly, 2016 (for reasons not being mentioned) could well be a continuation.
There have been some good things, it hasn't been all bad. I really don't mean to gripe. But I guess I am!
Anyway:
January
Very cold month with some winter weather.
It was very stressful for Otter because Roomie lost her job right before Christmas 2014 and January was the first of over 3 months that Roomie was without a job - and not looking very much, either.
Michael's had yarn on sale and I added to the stash! (Always good.)
Froggy started planning her trip to see us.
The Teenager's health suddenly took a turn for the worse, he was weakened by a bug and while he did recover from the illness, he never got his strength back and although we didn't realize it at the time, it was the beginning of the downhill turn for him.
We celebrated our 30th Wedding Anniversary, this year we had pizza!
February
We switched internet and email providers.
The stupid groundhog saw his shadow!
I had what I first thought might be the flu, but then realized it was "just" a cold.
This month saw the first issues with Frasier; he fell in the kitchen and couldn't get up. We had to help him up but he was sore and stiff for days. The vet thought he might have age-related issues, probably arthritis in the mix as well. But he was always a happy dog when J came over!
Otter was really getting concerned about Roomie and the lack of a job.
The Teenager and his lovely bride celebrated their 78th Wedding Anniversary and were one of the featured couples on the Today Show!
Snowy weather.
22 years since we moved from TEXAS.
On February 27, the world lost one of it's shining lights in the form of Leonard Nimoy. We're still mourning this one. LLAP!
March
The month started with having to replace tires on the car that Otter was driving, as well as a front-end alignment. $1200.00 was Chevy's estimate and it was also the last time we actually used that particular dealership - and they are under NO illusions as to why. It was a M.A.J.O.R. moment for *RHTW. We had the work done at a local shop for about $500 less than Chevy's estimater.
The vet suggested we start Frasiser on pain pills, which did seem to help but he didn't need them all the time.
I came down with another cold! I literally sneezed all the way to work one morning and by about 8:15, I was feeling miserable.
We had more winter weather.
Otter was overjoyed when we discovered Green Apple gatorade!
I started crocheting a poncho for Otter, which took me a while to finish. I had a lot of interruptions!
The dogs had their "beffday" and we spoiled them with plenty of treats - in hindsight, I'm glad we gave them so many extra treats.
We got several boxes of Girl Scout cookies.
The dry air caused me to have a few nosebleeds.
We decided it was time to talk to the minister at the church we'd been attending, we had to reschedule the appointment we had so we didn't actually talk to them this month.
Otter turned 23!
There was a tornado that struck a very nearby, next-door to Tulsa town. It was bad.
My glasses broke in 2! Bill had to glue and tape them back together so I could at least go get them replaced the next day.
We had to replace our insurance, thanks to NObamacare.
April
Our new insurance company took 2 premiums and *RHTW had a few "fun" phone calls with them.
One of the bright spots of this year happened. Otter had her annual lung recheck and we feel like we have received a miracle - it's gone! It never really goes away, but hers is as close to not being there as it can possibly be. It is a true Blessing and we are so beyond thankful for this.
Otter gave Roomie a "no job, move out" date. Amazing how motivated she got when that happened and she suddenly found a job.
Otter officially became the owner of a 2002 Chevy Impala.
The electric company messed up our yard and also cut the phone lines.
The hummingbirds showed up this month.
My precious dog, Frasier, one of the most special pets I've ever had, left us on the 23rd. He was one of those rare, once in a lifetime dogs.
May
Otter proved that yes, she is very much her Father's Daughter. She the cut palm of her left hand and had to get stitches! I think she got 4. She was a typical Redhead and bled a lot.
Maggie Moo was sick, the vet thought she had another UTI and the medication helped her pretty quickly.
Stupid electric company kept at it!
Bill was rear-ended in his work van - it was not his fault in any way, he wasn't hurt.
Maggie Moo was scratching herself silly - and driving us nuts! The vet said she has allergies and put her on zyrtec - which didn't work too well but then we tried it later and it worked fine.
Bill's sister got married! We went to TEXAS over Memorial Day weekend for the wedding and it was really nice.
Rain, Rain, Rain!
I had my one and only migraine of the year.
It was one of the better months of the year.
June
Otter went to Dallas with J, his mom and some of their friends. They went to a convention and debuted their "Joker and Harley" gender switched costumes. Which were very well-received.
We decided to get rid of the landline phone, since it was out more than it was working.
We decided to try an automatic feeder for the Magginator, it works very well.
Maggie met two other beagles when we went to get her annual shots. Then she met a wolf! Luna the wolf lives in our neighborhood and she is absolutely gorgeous.
The electric company was still being stupid! I made a pest of myself, or actually I let *RHTW deal with them - and they finally decided to send out a repair crew, which was a company they contracted with and the repair crew foreman was appalled at how bad the damage to our yard was and how tacky the electric company was being about fixing it.
After they fixed it, we realized that our house was not getting the electric current it was supposed to and I had to place an emergency call to them. I started the call but *RHTW finished it.
Froggy and her daughter came to see us, which was a bright spot.
Bill's birthday! For 6 months, he was older than me. He got bacon for his birthday meal, which made him happy.
My vacation started and the first thing was Maggie the Wonder Beagle getting stuck under the shed. That should have been our first clue that it was not going to be a good week.
The Teenager was pretty sick in June. The last time I actually saw him was right before I went on vacation at the end of the month, he was weak but he was very mentally clear and it was actually a fun day with him. But in hindsight, I think he knew something was coming and from what he said and how he said it - I think he was telling me goodbye. When I was on vacation, he had to be hospitalized for pneumonia and he was recovering from that when he had what was probably a stroke. That was actually in July.
July
The frame holding the driver's seat in my car (the 2008 impala) broke and we had to buy a replacement seat at a salvage yard, then put the seat from my car on the frame of the salvage seat.
The next day, the brakes on the El Camino basically failed and Bill had to replace them.
Otter and Roomie decided to move to a 2-bedroom unit. Otter was cautiously optimistic about it, since Roomie was working again and she hoped that it would work out but she was also pretty sure that when that lease was up she would suggest that Roomie find her own place. They moved on the 31st.
On July 8, the Teenager had the probable stroke. It was overnight and he was most likely asleep; he never really woke up from that and that is actually a blessing. On the 12th, he left this life behind. He was 98 years, 9 months. This was one of the worst things that happened this year, at least from our perspective. But we know exactly where he is and that we will see him again. Until then, we'll all miss him terribly.
August
This month literally started with Otter's car having issues. The radiator ruptured and we had to replace it. It was just the beginning of trouble with that car. It spent more time at my house than it did at hers!
But she did get a pretty good raise at work so she was happy!
Bill saw the dermatologist for his annual visit, the spot we thought might be a skin cancer on his nose turned out not to be but there were a couple of very small ones on his hand that the doctor froze off.
We finally met with the pastor at the church we'd been visiting. And we knew almost immediately that it is not the place for us. That was very disappointing.
We put tires on my car, the 2008 impala.
I was sick, it was a bug that was going around but it took me a few weeks to really recover from it.
We closed our booth at the antique store.
The Bluebell plants reopened!
September
Labor Day.
Bill came down with the mega-bug I'd had.
Otter and I got our flu shots and I spent most of Labor Day weekend dealing with my reaction. Which wasn't as bad as some years have been. But the reaction hit me within 2 minutes of getting the shot, I got my shot at 5:30 and at 5:32 I was suddenly freezing cold.
Then I came down with a cold.
I crocheted purple baby caps for a local charity.
There was a lunar eclipse, we could see it from the back yard and it was very pretty.
It was pretty obvious that Otter was under some stress, she was having problems with Roomie and was very upset over the situation. She wasn't sure what she could do, as Roomie was on the lease but she really regretted moving to the 2-bedroom unit, although at the time it was a good decision. But she knew that she would not renew the lease (or any lease) with Roomie when it was up.
October
We went to the State Fair in Tulsa, we took J along with us and we had a fun time. We were tired but it was an enjoyable day. I discovered that I am a sheep magnet - they are evil! They know I'm beyond extremely allergic to them.
We had a lot of the typical "persecution" because of the TEXAS/ou game the first weekend of the month. Then TEXAS won!
Roomie lost her job. Or at least she admitted to Otter that she'd lost it, the actual time that happened might have been in September. But it was a major retailer and she was fired, she would not say why but this particular store does not fire employees unless they have very good reason. She claimed to have gotten another job at a fast-food place and probably did, but we're not totally convinced that she kept it longer than a couple of weeks. When she told Otter that she'd lost the job and got the new one, Otter told her then that Roomie was going to have to find her own place a) when the lease was up or b) immediately if she lost the fast-food job.
Because Otter was expecting to have to move when the lease was up, she did a little looking for other complexes that might be a little cheaper but nobody expected Roomie to do what she did: move out and attempt to do it without giving Otter any warning at all - but Otter caught her packing. It was a very ugly, nasty situation and I'm not going to detail it here because it was already detailed. But it was bad, however it could have been much worse. There was very heavy *RHTW involvement.
The Teenager would have been 99. We had cupcakes at work to celebrate and remember him.
The 32nd anniversary of when we met was on the 14th.
Bill decided to get another booth for the pachinko machines.
We put Maggie Moo back on the zyrtec, she was scratching again and had caused a little bald spot above her tail from it. She had a slight case of Bald Bobo! But the zyrtec helped her a lot more this time.
It rained. A lot.
One morning was really strange: The sunrise was brilliant in the east, it was dark and cloudy in the middle area and then there was a huge rainbow in the west. All at the same time!
November
Our "lovely" insurance carrier sent us a letter with a $400+ increase in our monthly premium. We made a lot of changes that took weeks.
Otter went to a Dias De Los Muertos (Day of the Dead) festival with J and his mom in his not quite next door to Tulsa neighboring town. She left rememberances for the Teenager and my aunt we refer to as AJ (who Otter was named for).
That night on her way home, her car acted like it was overheating and we had to go get her. About 9:30 at night, in almost the middle of nowhere, dark and very isolated - but J and his mom came to wait with her until we got there. Bill drove her car home, although he had to stop a couple of times, I brought her home in my car and then she took my car on home with her.
For the next few weeks, we dealt with her car acting up and she had my car quite a bit.
In the midst of all the car issues, Otter moved to a one-bedroom unit in the same complex.
Bill got a bad cold.
Then I got a bad cold.
Thanksgiving was a little different, we wound up at Taco Bell because it was the only place we could find open when the power went out! That was the first of several times we got a senior discount!
We finally got our Bluebell ice cream!
There was a hard rain storm and then we saw a double rainbow.
The new booth store opened up.
The El Camino developed a problem with what is probably the thermostat but the specific part is pretty much unavailable. It is a 1976 vehicle, after all! It's going to spend the next few months in the driveway anyway, like it usually does in the winter.
We started discussing Bill buying a 2nd hand car to drive in the winter, since Otter had the 02 impala he used to drive.
December
We realized that Otter's car was becoming a serious concern and it was not a car we were comfortable with her driving any longer. We bought a new car for me, a 2015 impala. Then we traded the 2008 to her and she gave Bill the 2002. The 2002 is still acting up, it is probably a series of cascading problems that keep causing other things to act up and it may well be that the car is just worn out. But in the meantime, Bill will drive it and she has a car that she can trust. New tires and in very good shape, she should be able to drive it for several years. I am very happy with the new car, but we really did not want a car payment yet. However, it was a good decision.
Otter and I went to the mall to Christmas shop one evening and had a very interesting encounter - I didn't mentioned details when I blogged about it, but we almost literally ran into her first boyfriend - and his girlfriend - and their two very young children! He was a real jerk when he and Otter broke up and at one point we had to tell his dad to reign his son in or we would call the police - which explains why the former boyfriend would not even look me in the eye when we saw him. Otter said that she's extremely glad that she dodged that particular situation, and she hopes that the idiot boy treats his baby mama better than he treated her and also that he's finally learned to be faithful.
We decided to put up a Christmas tree so I went to Hobby Lobby and bought another artificial tree.
We still had to deal with the cold bug we got in late November. Even up until right before Christmas.
Then Bill came down with another cold which I thought was the flu at first.
We finally got actual winter weather, much later than usual.
There was a lot that happened, it wasn't all bad and most of the really cruddy stuff is not being mentioned. But this has been a fairly bad year. We do realize that it could have been worse, and there have been some good things. But the main thing that defines this year is the loss of a man who was like a father to me and that Otter considered to be another one of her grandfathers.
Here's to 2016 and hopes that it will be a good year for everyone!
